Are Your Beliefs Keeping You Back From Success?

You have a goal, a big one. You are totally committed to showing up and making the effort. You work hard, create awesome content and go all in 100% every day. But you're still not seeing results. Sound familiar? I get you sister; I was you! I used to get myself in such a state on the daily, wondering where the hell my ideal clients were, why my success was clearly hiding on me and why, after all of my hard graft, my business was drier than the Sahara on the hottest day of the year.

"What even is this B.S??" I'd be screaming into my phone every time I seen someone achieve their next level, get something I wanted or find recognition that was clearly meant for me, I mean clearly I deserved it more right? I was just as good as her!? Or was I? The answer of course, is yes, I was as good and as deserving, but the reality was, I didn't actually believe it. I was so caught up in comparison and resentment that I couldn't see the wood for the trees! I'd tell myself I believed it, I'd tell myself I was worthy, I'd tell myself I was good enough, but subconsciously, I didn't believe a single word of it. You see, I had a lot of deep rooted self sabotaging beliefs, conditioned behaviours and old patterns which stemmed from childhood and instead of breaking through them, I suppressed them. In fact, I was so unaware of them that I didn't stand a chance. It wasn't until I worked with (and became) a rapid transformation coach, that I fully understood the deeper level impact my belief system had on my success, or lack thereof. And I'm not alone in this. Almost every single entrepreneur out there has some form of limiting belief which holds them back from reaching their full potential. It's one of the largest causes of failure in business and one of the top road blocks to achieving amazing success. It's one of the reasons why only 3% make it. Did you know that 80% of the amazing women out there are dealing with impostor syndrome?!

Why? We refuse to feel past the triggers. We refuse to let ourselves move past the conscious mind, past the surface level things that we convince ourselves hold the responsibility for our struggles. It's easier that way. Don't feel, don't deal, don't heal. Don't unearth the pain points. That shit's too damn hard. We blame things like low visibility, social media algorithms, lack of knowledge on things like ad copy or google analytics or a "flooded market"; but the real truth of the matter is, we're shit scared to be seen, we fear rejection, we struggle with self worth issues, we self sabotage due to feeling below par. Then we convince ourselves that the problems are external, that we need to pay for more courses, take a new seminar, release a new product or service that sells better than the current tumbleweed offering doing nothing in our Dropbox. But the truth is all of this is an illusion. The problems are not external factors. The problem lays deep in the blue print of our own mind. The problem lays with you. The good news? As much as you are the problem, you are also the one with the solution.

Fun fact: our belief system isn't even ours. Yes that's right, it's passed down from generations of learned beliefs and so called truths from our parents, teachers and authoritative influences. From the ages of 0 to 7, we are a walking subconscious, taking in every single bit of information like a sponge, soaking it in and storing it into our blueprint, unwittingly giving it a nice warm home, only for it to jump back out and bite us later on down the line. The amazing thing about the human mind though, is that it can unlearn each and every single thing it learns. It can be reprogrammed, reinstalled and totally updated with new information. And this is where the fun begins. You have the power to bin that old belief system, the minute you stop giving it validation and stability. You can break down this garbage, strip it of the so called "evidence" that holds it in such high authority in your mind and let it go. You'll find that when you do some digging, there's no actual facts to back this shit up. It's all illusion. All you have to do is give yourself permission to feel past those triggers. Allow yourself to go deep, unearth the uncomfortable stuff and give it the time and effort it takes to mend it. It's not easy, in fact it's pretty hard, but here's the thing, beautiful, nothing worth having ever is.

So if reading this article resonates with you, or if like me just a short while ago, you are at a place where you have tried everything you can to reach your next level with no success, then maybe you have a limiting belief sitting below the surface; holding you back, lurking and sabotaging. You have the power to overturn it, remove the authority it has over your mind and move forward, the moment you start to dig deep and heal. You won't move up until you do, but once you take that action, amazing shifts will occur!

I'd love to help you to smash this out and step into your full potential! Get in touch with me to get started.... Where could you be once you're over the limit? Let's find out!

Much Love,